To become prosperous and successful, you have to think, talk and act prosperous and successful. You have to let your mind be dominated by what you want to have and achieve in life.
To purpose to have a positive self image is man’s greatest liberation where each man or woman knows that nobody can withhold the good he or she desires or deserves except him or her. Where one stops explaining about their worst conditions, struggling past, or what they are currently going through and focuses on only what they want to manifest in their life.
Talk about how lucky you are to be lucky.
Talk about how happy you are to be happy.
Talk about how brilliant you are to be brilliant.
Talk about of the great works you have done and more opportunities of doing great work will come.
Our biggest challenge is not outside us but inside us. Our biggest failure is not outside us but inside us. Our biggest heartbreak is not outside us but inside us. Our biggest enemy is not outside us but inside us. Our biggest fate is not outside us but inside us. Our biggest bully is not outside us but inside us. Our biggest suffering is not outside us but inside us. When any man or woman learns and knows how find the diamond lying inside them which is only found after overcoming tons of dirt inside their life, their failures, pains, heartbreak, unfulfilled desires, crisis, grief, sorrow, unhappiness then whatever the man or woman finds inside then he will surely find in his or her outside world.
For so long I looked outside and I couldn’t find anything. I told about how life was miserable, how I was unlucky, how I had come from poor background, my low academic qualifications, being bullied, being sacked from job mysteriously, losing money, being betrayed by friends, heartbreaks not knowing that the more I talked about my pains, failures, challenges, failures the more I continued to think about them and only give them power over me, became a victim in my own life instead of keeping quiet, thinking exactly opposite of my past, come up with a plan of how to handle one problem after the other. I realized that I only needed to start with one problem whether be it academic, my own happiness, career, spiritual, financial literacy, physical health or make sure I look good, change my wardrobe, and above all start with building a big personal library. The day I became very intentional and deliberate about changing my life, then the gods became favorable to me. My faith in God started to grow. I used to really hate God for all my troubles, failures and challenges since they seemed to follow me, bad luck is like it had my name engraved in it since it used to follow me wherever I went.
Today that has changed. The more I develop myself intellectually, spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially, financially, mentally, sexually the more lucky I become. I didn’t know one can prepare themselves to be so lucky in life. The easy life we admire to have is available to everyone but it’s not as easy as we think, it’s actually comes from extreme sacrifice and delayed instant gratification. The easy life first demands extreme discipline, faith, clear defined personal values, clear personal goals, passion, dedication, commitment, mastery and faith. Then one is forced from being a passive leaver of life to being a very active leaver of life who is more intentional and very deliberate about everything you desire in life.
If you want to earn the best whether as an employee or employer you can. You only need to grow your value, develop your capacity and change your mental programming language and work on having a positive self image. Your life doesn’t change without you changing your self image from negative to positive. Sometimes you will be shocked that you don’t even have to say anything to anyone but you must get SICK & TIRED of being broke, being in debts, being a victim, being a loser, being unhappy, being the one that people walk away from, being the one that people always complain about to being the complete opposite. Our life doesn’t change by accident or mistake, it only changes to the exact level of change we achieve within through our self image which is our programming language.
We have each to reach a point where we put a pause in life and first stop chasing money and first chase ourselves. Become extreme selfish with ourselves, our time and first focus on saving “ME” first. Most of us we pretend to be out there trying to help our parents, siblings, spouse, kids, friends, colleagues, customers but believe me if you haven’t helped yourself in all areas dynamically life will be very tough on you since everyone you are trying to help will at one point go against you. Even Moses in the Bible was helping killing Egyptians oppressing Israelites and they made him go to exile. They asked him, “Who made you a ruler over us” Since he had started to help others without first helping himself God made sure in the exact years he had taken to learn to lead which was 40 years, he took the same 40 years to unlearn so that God could use him. I think Moses was the most hard headed people that God ever used. His ego was bigger than life in all people that God used. If you don’t first help yourself in a way that you have liberated yourself that even if you help people and they backstab you, it doesn’t bothers you for long, you can easily forgive them even though you won’t forget, then go back because you might kill yourself or you will die before your age and die a very bitter person. In my last two decades I have lived my life learning from my own life, observing people and seeing men and women rise from nothing to most important men and women in the society and same way see great men and women become nobody.
Yes your best days are ahead of you but only in exact proportion you are deliberate and intentional in your thinking, planning, anticipating and faith you have about it. Your life isn’t going to change by accident or miracle, you must want it, you must desire it. Yes fate, accident and miracles has caused men and women to change but it was only to the exact proportion they were ready for change. If you don’t agree ask the lottery winner who won millions or billions and they are now paupers. Ask men and women who made millions and billions, who had power, authority, influence, affluence and now they are normal poor ordinary citizens. There were time when mentioning their name could open all kinds of doors nationally and internationally but now their name is only in history books. My desire is not to see you reach at the Top and come down fast, it is to see you reach there, enjoy and do all the good that you can. Nothing is as great as reaching at the Top a liberated man or woman with positive self image guarded by either a very strong faith, religion or philosophy or both.
Let’s meet at the Top with positive self image as you choose to remain an incurable optimist. Focus on getting Wiser, Stronger, Better, with more faith and incurable optimism who sees only good even in your worst of the worst circumstances.
Receive warm hugs and greetings
From Dr. Bonnie Kim
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